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“有调查表明:考生的压力很大一部分来自家庭,他们担心考不好会愧对父母年复一年的倾情付出,愧对父母日复一日的悉心照顾,愧对整个家族寄予的殷切希望,担心父母脸上无光,在同事朋友面前抬不起头来;顾虑一旦落榜给家庭经济增加额外负担……考生的一系列担心,使得全社会的目光都聚焦到家长身上,在高考即将到来之际,人们对家长提出了更高的要求:要求家长在高考期间做孩子的心理按摩师;做孩子的营养保健师;做孩子的资料搜集员和报考志愿的高参;孩子脆弱时,家长要做励志顾问;孩子郁闷时,家长要做不良情绪的回收站……林林总总的要求令家长无所适从,这给原本已经十分焦虑的家长带来更多的心理负担,似乎孩子一旦发挥不好或报考失误,家长难辞其咎。”
“A survey shows that: a large part of the pressure of candidates from the family, they worry that the test will be unworthy of the parents year after year to pay, unworthy of their parents day after day of careful care, ashamed of the whole family eagerly placed I hope, worry about the parents face naked, in front of colleagues and friends can not lift his head; concerns once dropped to the family economy to add an extra burden ... ... a series of concerns the candidates, making the whole society’s attention are focused on the body of the parents, the college entrance examination coming On the occasion, people put forward higher requirements for parents: parents are required to be psychologists for children during their college entrance exams; nutritionists who work as children; information collectors who work as children and volunteer counselors; children vulnerable, parents To be a motivational consultant; children depressed, parents want bad recycle bin to do ... ... Abundant requirements to parents at a loss, which already had very anxious parents bring more psychological burden, it seems that once the child play bad or apply Mistake, parents blame. ”