国人有个奇怪的习惯,就是在孩子尚小,没有明确的选择意识时,偏偏让他们自己做主,比如让刚满周岁的孩子“抓周”等;等到孩子长大了,渐渐有了自己的意愿,想自己做主时,家长们又不干了,“不行,哪能你自己说想干啥就干啥!”。 People have a strange habit, that is, children are still young, there is no clear choice of consciousness, but let them call the shots, such as just let the children over the age of “catch the week” and so on; until the children grow up, gradually Their own wishes, want to own their own masters, parents quit, “No, how can you say what you want to do what! ”.