性格是后天长成的,在人们的社会活动及其交往中,往往对人们的处理问题的思想方法、思维方式有着重要的影响.古往今来,无数名人或因性格修养的好坏,可导致事业功败垂成的事例不可胜数,因而,性格的修养与学习如何修养的方法大有必要.其借鉴法、学习摹仿法、自我总结法及忍耐变通法这四种方法都对性格修养大有裨益. Personality is acquired, and in people’s social activities and their contacts, often have an important impact on people’s thinking and methods of thinking and thinking mode .Through the ages, countless celebrities or because of the personality traits can lead to success or failure of the cause Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate the character and learn how to cultivate.All the four methods of learning by reference, learning by imitation, self-summing-up and patience by omission all contribute to the cultivation of character.