自从父亲去世,对我来说,大地顿时变得柔软,因为我的父亲安葬在里面。不久前,母亲又去世,让我倍感凄凉——“子欲养而亲不待”。失去父母,让我更加深切体会到孔子所说的“未知生,焉知死”。本来,没有经历过亲人朋友的亡故,我是不懂得死亡,更不会去祭祀扫墓的——“祭如在,祭神如神在”;如果没有感受到先人的存在,神的存在,祭祀有什么意义呢?不如不祭。 Since my father died, to me, the earth suddenly became soft, because my father was buried in it. Not long ago, my mother passed away again, leaving me feeling sad even more. Lost my parents, let me know more deeply what Confucius said. Originally, I had not experienced the death of my relatives and friends, I did not know how to die, but I did not go to the sacrificial grave - “If the sacrifice, as God is in God”; if you do not feel the existence of ancestors, God’s existence What is the meaning of sacrificial worship?