从北京学习回来的第一天上午,女儿没去上学。趁热打铁,放手给了女儿几件没有做过的事情。事后,女儿兴奋地说:“妈妈,原来是这样呀!”我也感到了从来没有过的愉悦和轻松。(郑委老师:这就是刚学完,家长在学习的“升温”阶段很“放心”做出的事情,但这种“放心”是假的,只有到“降温”阶段后那才是真的。同时,家长“放心”给孩子的正是对孩子最为重要的“成就感和价值感”。)女儿上学迟到一直是我的心病,那天晚上 On the first morning of my study in Beijing, my daughter did not go to school. Strike while the iron strike, let go gave her daughter a few things that have not been done. Later, the daughter said excitedly: “Mom, it is the original way! ” I also felt never had the pleasure and ease. (Teacher Zheng: This is just finished, parents in learning “warming ” stage is “rest assured ” to make things, but this “rest assured ” is a fake, only to “The stage after that is true .At the same time, parents ” rest assured “is the most important to the children ” sense of accomplishment and sense of worth ".) Daughters late to school has always been my heart disease, that night