家长批评孩子是常见的事,但大多数家长的方法都不对,如有的总说孩子没用,有的总爱拿孩子和别人比,有的总爱翻旧帐,有的爱唠叨,有的则总喜欢吓唬、挖苦、讽刺或在别人面前数落、以身份压制孩子等等。这些批评严重刺伤了孩子的自尊心,损害了孩子稚嫩的心灵,使孩子自信被打击,智慧被扼杀。 Parents criticize children is a common thing, but most parents are not the right way, if some always say that children useless, and others always love to take children and others than others, some always love the old account, some love nagging, Others like to scare, sarcastic, sarcastic, or countless others in front of others to suppress children as identities. These critics have seriously hurt their children’s self-esteem, undermining their innocent children’s minds, confronting their children with self-confidence and strangling their wisdom.