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问:我是恪守本分的人,读大学时有许多同学情侣去宾馆开房,我和男友只有正常的亲密行为,我觉得女人必须对自己负责。结果男友跟别人发生了关系,导致我们分手,他说:“像你这种瞎保守的女人,根本玩不起爱情的浪漫。”这件事对我的直接影响就是,我在与第二任男友相处了近一年后,觉得关系很稳定,就开始了同居生活。同居不到两年,他提出分手,我问原因,他说:“没意思了!”因为他觉得结婚之后两个人还要过一模一样的日子实在无趣。我纠缠、挽回,但是都无济于事。我困惑,到底是守身对,还是同居对呢?
Q: I am a person who obeys this duty. When I was in college, many classmates and lovers went to the hotel to open rooms. Only normal intimacy with my boyfriend was. I think women must be responsible for themselves. As a result, her boyfriend had a relationship with others and led us to break up. He said: “The blind woman like you can not play the romance of love at all.” The direct impact of this on me was that, Two years boyfriend get along after nearly a year, I feel very stable relationship, began living together. Living together for less than two years, he proposed to break up, I asked why, he said: “boring!” Because he felt married after two people had exactly the same day is boring. I am entangled and saved, but it does not help. I am confused, in the end is to keep fit, or cohabitation right?