知心大姐:我丈夫是一个工程师,平时工作很忙。他有一个习惯,每天吃晚饭时,总要问孩子的功课,查孩子的成绩,只要孩子有点不好,就要训斥孩子,常常使全家人晚饭吃得很不开心。我也知道他这样做不对,但不知怎么办才好。张静芳张女士:你提的问题正是现在许多中小学生家庭中共同存在的一个问题,具有一定的代表性,应该引起广大家长的重视。有的家长由于自己工作忙,平时与孩子接触的时间较少,往往会很自然地想到:“既然平时挤不出时间 Intimate Sister: My husband is an engineer, usually busy with work. He has a habit of eating dinner every day, always ask their children’s homework, check the child’s performance, as long as the child a little bad, we must scold children, often to the family to eat very unhappy dinner. I also know that he did not do this, but I do not know what to do. Zhang Jingfang Zhang: Your question is precisely one of the many common problems existing in primary and secondary school families. It has a certain degree of representation and should draw the attention of the majority of parents. Some parents because of their busy work, usually less contact with their children, often will naturally think: ”Since usually do not squeeze out the time