现在的一般家庭里,夫妻双方均外出工作,家务也多由男女双方共同承担。象带小孩这种在过去都是让妈妈负责的事情,今天也越来越多的由父亲分担了。其实,无论父亲或母亲对孩子的成长都具有影响力。只不过是与孩子相互关系的方向不同,层次有别,而各有所长罢了。过去大家都怀疑男人粗手大脚,天生就不适合照顾小孩。这种旧的社会习俗影响了父亲的职能。今天的实践已证明,父亲也会很好地与孩子相处,只是在作法和观念上与母亲有所不同。父亲和孩子在一起的时候,同样会凝 Now in the general family, both husband and wife go out to work, and housework is also shared by both men and women. Things that used to be the responsibility of mums, such as children, are more and more shared by fathers today. In fact, both fathers and mothers have an influence on their children’s growth. It is only different from the direction of mutual relations with the children, different levels, and each have their own strengths Bale. In the past, everybody suspected that a man was superficial and was not suitable for taking care of children. This old social practice affected the father’s function. Today’s practice has proven that fathers also get along very well with their children, differing only in their practices and concepts from their mothers. When the father and the child together, the same will condensate