按照老家的风俗，每逢喜事临门，总是要大摆酒席，以示庆贺的。儿时的某一天，父亲带我到亲戚家参加宴席。我正准备坐下，谁知，屁股尚未落凳，却先挨上了父亲的巴掌：“小孩子，不懂规矩！这位置是长辈坐的。”我也曾有些困惑：不就是个座位吗，坐哪里不是坐，用得着这么凶吗 In accordance with the custom of home, every wedding, always want to put the banquet to celebrate. One day in my childhood, my father took me to the relatives to attend the feast. I was ready to sit down, who knows, the buttocks has not yet stool, but first hand on his father’s slap in the face: “Children, do not understand the rules! This position is the elders.” I have some confusion: is not a seat? Where to sit is not sitting, with so fierce it