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很多父母都已经认识到,孩子光有智商还不行,还必须有情商。1995年,美国心理学家丹尼尔·高尔曼(DanielGoldman)提出了情绪智力的概念,也就是我们通常所说的“情商”。近两年来,人们对情商的讨论和测试日益热烈,但从专业角度来说,“情商”并不能测出来,“情商”也并不主要指孩子的情绪和情感,而包括更广泛的内容。用心理学的专业词儿来说,叫做儿童的情绪与社会性发展。具体是指儿童在与周围人的交往过程中,在遗传条件的基础上形成的那些必需的心理特征,如对父母的依恋、交往技能、同伴关系、社会性情绪、同情心、亲善行为、自我控制、对攻击性的控制、道德情感和行为等。一个社会化、会交往的人才能学会生活,学会工作,学会爱别人,学会接受别人的爱。
Many parents have realized that children have IQ is not enough, you must also have emotional intelligence. In 1995, the American psychologist Daniel Goldman put forward the concept of emotional intelligence, which we usually call “emotional intelligence.” In the past two years, people have been discussing and testing on EQ more and more, but from a professional point of view, “EQ” can not be measured. “EQ” also does not mainly refer to children’s emotions and emotions, including more Extensive content. Psychology with professional terms, called the emotional and social development of children. Specifically refers to the children in the process of interaction with people around the genetic conditions based on the formation of those essential psychological characteristics, such as parental attachment, communication skills, fellowship, social emotions, compassion, goodwill, self Control, offensive control, moral emotion and behavior. A social, social interaction can learn life, learn to work, learn to love others, learn to accept the love of others.