在培养孩子养成良好习惯的过程中,教师和父母常常“当局者迷”,即只顾关注孩子的学习习惯,却忽视自己的教育习惯。殊不知,大人的教育习惯极大地影响着孩子的习惯养成,而孩子是身心迅速成长的个体,他们的最大特点就是“变化”。如果大人总是用老眼光看待他,用老方式对待他,他们 In cultivating children’s good habits, teachers and parents often “confuse the authorities”, that is, they only care about children’s learning habits and neglect their own educational habits. As everyone knows, adult education habits greatly affect the child’s habits to develop, while children are physically and mentally rapid growth of individuals, their greatest characteristic is “change.” If adults always look at him with an old look, use the old way to treat them, they