心理学认为,一见钟情现象的出现大多是因为女孩子在他人身上找爸爸的影子,男孩子在她人身上找妈妈的原型。弗洛姆在他的《爱的艺术》中这样写道:造成神经机能病态爱情的基本条件是“相爱的”一方或双方都牢牢地抓住父亲或母亲的形象,并把他以前对父亲或母亲怀有的感情、期待和恐惧成年后都转移到“所爱者”身上。这些人从来没有超越儿 Psychology that the phenomenon of love at first sight appeared mostly because of the girl looking for the shadow of others in the father, the boy looking for her mother in the prototype. In his book The Art of Love, Fromm writes: The basic condition for the morbid affection of nerves is that one or both of the “in love” firmly grasp the image of the father or mother and put him in the past Affection, expectation, and fear of the father or mother are all transferred to the “lover” as adults. These people never surpass children