国外曾有学者调查了十几万男性后,得出下面的部分结论: 大多数男性都为自己是男性而自豪,一个男性必须是强有力、自信、独立的,感情上要能自我控制,当受到伤害或感到痛苦时要能够自持,甚至为此付出代价。男性总感到自己的责任与义务,但内心常常处于一种既想有所作为,又担心自己能力不足的矛盾焦虑之中。 Some foreign scholars have investigated hundreds of thousands of men and reached the following conclusion: Most men are proud of themselves as men. A man must be strong, confident and independent, emotionally capable of self-control. When To be self-sustaining or even paying for damage or suffering. Men always feel their responsibilities and obligations, but often they are in the midst of anxiety that they both want to make a difference and worry about their lack of ability.