今天,十几岁的孩子在老师严肃的谈话和厉声的批评面前,毕恭毕敬的态度已是不多见了。他们信奉的是不盲从,不轻信,他们期待更多的同情、信任、理解与尊重。如何才能使师生的交流更加亲切,更加自然,更为融洽呢?陶行知先生的一些主张和行为是可以作为借鉴的。 陶行知先生认为,教师对学生应该是极端的真诚,要加入到孩子队伍里,成为其一员,这种加入“不是敷衍的,不是假冒的,而是要真诚的在情感方面和小孩子站在一条战线上,”只有感情的融洽,才能感化学生,教育好学生。(《创造的 Today, the attitude of respectful teenagers in the face of the teacher's serious conversation and sharp criticism is rare. They believe in no blind faith, no conviction, and they expect more sympathy, trust, understanding and respect. How to make the exchange between teachers and students more cordial, more natural and more harmonious? Some ideas and behaviors of Mr. Tao Xingzhi can be used as reference. Mr. Tao Xingzhi believes that teachers should be extremely sincere to students, to join the ranks of children, to become a member of this “is not perfunctory, not a fake, but to be sincere and emotionally and children Standing on a fronts, ”Only the harmonious feelings can affect the students and educate the students well.“ (”Creative