“打在手上 ,疼在心里” ,对于每一个深爱孩子的父母来说 ,打孩子是万般无奈又不得已而为之的一份苦事。一个人的成长是艰难的 ,他或多或少要付出一些代价。我们的思想行为要受到社会规范、伦理道理、传统文化的约束 ,我们生活的环境中不仅有真善美 ,也有假丑恶。每个亲子的父 “In my hand, I am hurting in my heart.” For every parent who loves children, hitting a child is a painful and hopeless undertaking. A person’s growth is difficult, he more or less have to pay some price. Our ideological and behavioral needs to be subject to social norms, ethics, traditional culture, the environment we live in is not only truth, goodness and beauty, but also fake ugly. Father of each parent