据《世说新语·惑溺》篇栽:晋时王戎为“竹林七贤”之首,其妻常常称他为“卿”。因“卿”是古时上对下、长对幼表示亲切的称呼,王戎便觉不当,对其妻道:“妇人卿婿(把丈夫称为卿),于礼为不敬,后勿复尔(以后不要再这样称呼)。”其妻回答说:“亲卿爱卿,是以卿卿。我不卿卿,谁当卿卿?”意思说: According to “Shih Tzu-yin · Suicide” articles: Wang Jin at the time of Jin Dynasty was the head of “Seven Sages of Bamboo Grove”, and his wife often called him “Qing”. Because “Qing” is an ancient call to the next, long to young kind of address, Wang Rong will feel improper, his wife said: “Woman’s husband-in-law (husband called Qing), the ceremony is disrespectful , After the Do not Seoul (later not to be called). ”His wife replied: “ pro-QING Aiqing, is the Secretary Qing. I do not Qingqing, who Qingqing? ”