帮助别人是一种美德,而适度拒绝帮助则是人生自立的一个前提。有一位叫鹏的青年,大学毕业后,父母亲为他安排了一份闲适的工作,鹏却拒绝了父母亲的帮助,决定只身南下广东寻找自己的梦想。父母亲不放心让心爱的儿子独闯天下,苦苦挽留他。鹏说:“我一直在你们的庇护下成长,我想自 Helping others is a virtue, and a modest refusal to help is a prerequisite for self-reliance in life. There was a young man named Peng who, after graduating from college, arranged a leisurely work for him. Peng refused his parents’ help and decided to go south alone to find his dream in Guangdong. Parents do not trust their beloved son alone in the world, struggling to retain him. Peng said: "I have been growing under your care, I think