每当别人夸赞自己的孩子的时候,做家长的总爱当着别人和自己孩子的面,有口无心地把孩子“贬”上一通,说孩子“呆头呆脑”、“傻里傻气”、“不懂礼貌”、“不讲卫生”、“没有出息”等等,好象把孩子“贬”得越低越好。这样做的本意无非是为了显示一下自己的“谦虚”,殊不知这样“谦虚”的结果,会给年幼的孩子的成长带来有害的影响. Every time when others are praising their children, the parents’ total love is “taken down” by the others and their children, and their children are “dull”, “stupidly foolish” and “not polite ”,“ Not hygiene ”,“ no good news ”and so on, as if the child“ derogatory ”as low as possible. The intention here is nothing more than to show one’s own “modesty,” not knowing that such a “modest” result would have a detrimental effect on the growth of young children.