情人最不能承受的恶俗,就是用金钱来衡量曾经付出的感情,一旦如此,所有的浪漫都马上烟消云散。认识一个上海男人,已婚,除了太太以外,还有其他同居的女友,提起外面的女人,他面带得色地称之为“情人”。我是个嗜好捉人短处的女子,便问他“情人”与“姘头”有什么区别?他支吾之间答不上来,最后寻个借口,说情人听起来文雅一些罢了。于我心里,情人较之姘头,要高尚很多,不止字面上的意思,更是心里的感觉。忘了哪部电影里,某个黑帮老大被记者追问身边的女人是否其姘头时,他表情严肃地纠正:“不是姘头,是情妇,因为情妇带了个‘情’字,所以与别的女人不同。”突然觉得这个黑道老大虽然做法不甚光彩,却不失为一个男人,至少他懂得女人心甘情愿不计较名分地跟 The most unbearable vulgar lover, is to use money to measure the feelings have been paid, and if so, all of the romantic disappear soon. Meet a Shanghai man, married, in addition to his wife, there are other cohabiting girlfriends, raised outside the woman, he vividly call “lover ”. I am a hobby woman to catch the shortcomings, then asked him “lover ” and “head ” What is the difference? He could not answer up, and finally find an excuse to say that the lover sounds more elegant. In my heart, my lover is taller than nobler, not only literally, but also my heart. Forgotten which movie, a gangster boss was asked by a reporter around the woman whether or not his head, he looked serious to correct: “is not blindsided, is the mistress, because the mistress brought a ’love’ word, so with other A woman different. ”Suddenly feel that although this mafia boss is not very brilliant, but after all, a man, at least he knows a woman willing to not care about the points with the