我们做家长的常会遇到这类事情:几个孩子刚才还一起玩得好好的,可是一会儿就吵闹甚至打斗起来。家长都很担心,认为孩子一起玩耍,应友好相处,不能争吵打斗。有些家长为避免自己孩子同其他孩子发生冲突,常常把孩子关在家中。其实,家长的这种想法和做法都是不妥的。从儿童心理学的角度来说,孩子之间的争吵打斗是他们在其“小社会 We often encounter such things as parents: a few children have just played together well, but for a while noisy or even fight together. Parents are worried that children should play together should be friendly and can not fight. Some parents often keep their children at home in order to avoid conflicts between their children and other children. In fact, these ideas and practices of parents are not proper. From the perspective of child psychology, the quarrel between children is that in their "small society