亲朋好友相聚,常常会谈论各自的孩子。当着孩子的面,有的家长把孩子说成“一朵花”,也有的家长把孩子说成“豆腐渣”。这些议论都带有一定的片面性,对教育孩子不利。家长在向客人谈到自己的孩子时,既不能为满足自己的虚荣心一味抬高孩子,也不能对孩子的长处不肯定,只顾吹毛求疵地指责他的短处,博取别的赞叹——看,人家做父母的管教真严!因为这样做,只会给孩子带来不良的影响。反之, Friends and family together, often talking about their children. In the face of children, some parents say their children as “a flower,” and some parents call their children “rubbish.” All these discussions have a certain one-sidedness and are not conducive to educating their children. When parents talk to their guests about their children, they can neither raise their children for the sake of satisfying their own vanity, nor can they be uncertain about the strengths of their children, blaming others for their shortcomings and taking other admirations - see, others Parental discipline really strict, because doing so, will only give the child a bad influence. on the contrary,