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在人际交往中,我们总有被人拒绝或拒绝别人的时候。拒绝。表述时难离一个“不”字,而这个“不”字往往又最难说出,因为咱们中国人最爱面子。要处理好人际关系,我们当学会拒绝别人,也应宽容接纳人家的拒绝。无论对人对己,一事当头,如果当事者不愿意接受,不乐意承认,敢于说“不”诚然不易,而善于说“不”则更加难得。所以给拒绝找一个适当的方式,实在是一种可贵的修养和境界。
In interpersonal relationships, we always have the time to be rejected or rejected by others. Refuse. The expression is hard to say “” not a word, and this “not ” is often the most difficult to say, because we Chinese people love face. To handle relationships well, we should learn to refuse others and should accept others’ refusal. Regardless of people-to-people, the matter is over, if the parties are unwilling to accept, unwilling to admit, dare to say “no” is not easy, and good at saying “no” is even more rare. Therefore, to refuse to find an appropriate way, it is indeed a valuable accomplishment and realm.