在近日上海市健康基金会开设的“与孩子共同成长——父母培训课题”上,面对培训老师的提问:“如果你的孩子做三道数学题错了一道,你对孩子说的第一句话会是什么?”结果,有80%以上的家长脱口而出:“你做错啦!”只有不到10%的家长回答:“答对了两题。你真棒!”该基金会儿童心理工作室主任吴亦君分析认为,这样的答案其实反映了平时家长评价和教育孩子的思维模式。 In the recent Shanghai Health Foundation to open “and children grow together - parent training topics ”, the face of the training teacher questions: “If your child is wrong to do three math, you say to the child ”As a result, more than 80% of parents blurted out: “ You make a mistake! ”Only less than 10% of the parents answered: “ You answered the two questions. ”Wu Yijun, director of the Foundation’s Children’s Psychology Studio, believes that such an answer actually reflects the usual way that parents evaluate and educate their children.