作为心理医生,几乎每天在倾听人们的烦恼,于是有朋友问我:“天天听人家说那些烦心的事,你就不觉得烦吗?”这倒是一个很有意思的问题。我却认为,当一个人专注于自己热爱的工作时,似乎与烦恼是无缘的;听了别人的许多烦恼,我反而认为自己很是受益,比起别人的诸多烦恼,自己的苦恼真是算不了什么。烦恼是怎样产生的呢?让我们来看看心理咨询中的一些实例就会明白,人人都免不了遭遇烦恼,关键在于,能不能以一种积极的态度来对待。 As a psychiatrist, listening to people’s worries almost everyday, a friend asked me, “Do you feel annoyed every day when listening to other people’s worries?” This is an interesting question. I think that when one focuses on the work he loves, it seems that he has no chance of troubling himself. Having listened to many troubles of others, I instead think that I am benefiting from it. Compared to the troubles of others, my own distress what. Let us take a look at some examples of psychological counseling will understand that everyone inevitably suffer trouble, the key is that can not be treated with a positive attitude.