本话题讨论展开后,我们收到大量读者来信。一个有趣的现象是参与讨论的心男性读者居多,而他们中的大部分又认为友谊不级跨越阶层。很多来信说了自己和小波相似的痛苦经历,似乎友谊与阶层的矛盾对于男性更加普遍和尖锐。首先要感谢这些参与讨论的朋友,感谢你们的热情、坦诚和说出自己的故事及观点的勇气,如果友谊能够跨越阶层,那也正是因为这些美好的品格 After the discussion of this topic started, we received a large number of readers’ letters. An interesting phenomenon is that most of the male and female readers who participate in the discussion are majority, and most of them think that friendship does not straddle the class. A lot of letters say about their painful experience similar to wavelet. It seems that the contradiction between friendship and class is more common and sharp to men. First of all, I want to thank those friends who participated in the discussion, thank you for your enthusiasm, frankness and the courage to tell your own stories and opinions. If friendship can cross the strata, it is because of these beautiful characters