笔者曾做过一个小小的实验:在平地上画一条10厘米宽的小路,我们都能从容无误地走过,当我们用凳子架起一条同样宽的木板时,就有许多人无法顺利通过。可见,外界环境一变,我们的心态就随之改变。或许此时,我们在为自己打退堂鼓了:我能走过去吗?如果掉下来呢?木板会不会折断呢?我们都人为地给自己设置了障碍, 给自己的心理抹上了阴影。失败往往与一个人的心态有着密切的联系,人一旦产生了畏惧心理,也就缺乏了克服困难的勇气,随之与成功也就擦肩而过了。 I have done a little experiment: drawing a 10-centimeter-wide path on the ground, we can all walk through it without error. When we stump up the same wide plank with benches, many people can not pass smoothly . Visible, the external environment changed, our mentality will change accordingly. Maybe at this moment, we are going to beat ourselves down: Can I go over? If it falls off, will the plank break? We all artificially set ourselves obstacles and cast a shadow over ourselves. Failure often has a close relationship with one’s mentality. Once a person has aroused his fear, he also lacks the courage to overcome the difficulties and will pass by with success.