儿子上幼儿园中班了。在他教室的一面墙上贴着班里每个小朋友的照片。如果哪个小朋友表现好,老师会在他的照片上方贴上一朵小红花。小红花对孩子来说显然非常重要,每次我去接儿子,总有几个孩子拉着我的手让我看他们的小红花。儿子对自己所得小红花的数量也记得非常清楚,经常骄傲地扳着小手指告诉家长,自己哪方面表现好才得的小红花。可是有很长时间,儿子的小红花停留在4朵不再增加了。于是儿子老是疑惑不解地问我:“我上课好好听了,饭也吃干 Son in kindergarten in the class. On each side of his classroom, a picture of every kid in the class was posted on the wall. If any of the children perform well, the teacher will put a little red flower on top of his photo. Small red flowers is obviously very important for children, every time I pick up my son, there are always a few children took my hand to let me see their small flowers. My son also remember the number of small red flowers I get very clearly. I often proudly pull my little finger and tell my parents what kind of small red flowers they are. However, for a long time, my son’s little red flower stopped in 4 no longer increased. So my son always puzzled to ask me: ”I listened to class, eat rice dry