在社会不同的人群中,诸如上下级之间、同事之间、父母与子女之间等,使用批评频率最高的大概要数父母对孩子的批评了,对人生发展影响较大的,大概也是这种批评。所以,父母树立批评的新观念,掌握批评的技巧,这对提高教育子女的效果是至关重要的。批评的新观念反映在批评的主导思想、批评方式与批评目的三个方面。一、批评是平等的双向思想沟通批评,是人际之间双向的思想沟通。它既包括批评者对被批评者所做“错事”的判断、评价和改进意见,又包括被批评者说明、承诺和积极改正的态度。如果只有批评者一方思想情感的宣示,而无被批评者 Among the different social groups, such as superiors and subordinates, colleagues, parents and children, the most frequently criticized parents use their children’s criticisms, which may have a greater impact on the development of life, Kind of criticism. Therefore, parents should set up new concepts of criticism and master the skills of criticism, which are crucial for improving the effectiveness of children’s education. The new concepts of criticism are reflected in the three aspects of the dominant ideology of criticism, the mode of criticism and the purpose of criticism. First, criticism is equal two-way thinking Communication criticism, is a two-way communication between people. It includes both critics of critics done “wrong” judgment, evaluation and improvement of opinions, but also by critics to explain, commitment and positive correction attitude. If only one of the critics of the emotional expression of ideas, without criticism