每次家访,家长们都会说上一句:“这孩子就听老师的,不论大小事,他都爱说‘我们老师说的’,真拿他没办法。”开始我听了不以为然,心想:老师的话真有这么大的威力?然而,当自己的孩子入园以后,我才真正体会到老师说的话在孩子心中的分量。我儿子上中班时,有一次他告诉我美术课上画了什么,是怎么画的。我说:“你画画的顺序不对,应该……”没等我说完,儿子理直气壮地说:“就是这样,我们老师都这样画的。”我拿出纸笔想纠正他,他 Every visit, parents will say: “This child listens to the teacher, regardless of the size of things, he loved to say ’our teacher said’, really get him no way.” At first I heard disagree, I thought: However, when my child enters the park, I really understand what the teacher says in the child’s mind. When my son went to work in the middle of the class, he once told me what I drew from the art class and how I painted it. I said, “You did not order it properly, you should ...” Without waiting for me to finish it, my son confidently said, “That’s it, all of our teachers painted this way.” I took out paper and pen to correct him.