赡养方式的变化是现代社会的重要特征。随着社会老龄化的进程,赡养方式无疑要发生变化。现代社会的竞争非常激烈,常会提到时间、竞争、选择这些生活模式,这将会影响到父母和子女之间的关系。其实现代中国父母和子女之间的关系已经有所变化,不再完全受传统束缚,尤其在1949年后妇女走出家庭、家庭革命等以后。在商品社会中,这种关系的变化显得更为剧烈,这就要求我们调整传统的生活方式。当基本的物质需求都能够满足的时候,人们 Changes in the mode of maintenance are an important feature of modern society. With the aging of society, the mode of maintenance will undoubtedly change. The competition in modern society is very fierce, and often refers to time, competition and the selection of these living models, which will affect the relationship between parents and children. In fact, the relations between parents and children have changed in contemporary China and are no longer completely bound by tradition. Especially after 1949, women went out of family and family revolution. In a commodity society, the change in this relationship is even more dramatic, which requires us to adjust the traditional way of life. When the basic material needs are met, people