一天,一位母亲打电话,着急地问我能不能教她一点方法,帮她治一治孩子偏激的毛病。她说“:我的儿子看问题特别偏激,一说什么事情,常常采取两极的思维方式,要么什么都好;要么什么都不好。比如,他对某个歌星有好感,就认为这个歌星一切都好,明明知道这个歌星有缺点也不愿承认,反而 One day, a mother called and anxiously asked if I could teach her a little way to help her rule a child’s extreme illness. She said: "My son is extremely excited about the issue, what to say, and often take a bipolar way of thinking, either good or not good .For example, he has a good impression on a singer, that all this singer All good, obviously know that the singer has the drawbacks are unwilling to admit, on the contrary