不久前,中国科学院心理研究所王极盛教授根据自己近三年来对北京市1800名家长所作的跟踪调查,指出眼下有三分之二的家庭存在着程度不一的教育不当问题,并根据家长不同的教育方式,将家长划分为四种类型:一是过分保护型。这类家长常常是什么事都为孩子代劳,致使有的孩子上了高中还不会削苹果,这样的孩子自然难有正常的、积极的、健康发展的个性。二是过分干涉型。这类家长总是按自己的意愿,给孩子的言行画框框、定调调,在这种干涉之下,孩子很难有发散性思维,往往养成人云亦云的习惯。三是严厉惩罚型。这类家长的数量虽然不很多,但 Not long ago, Professor Wang Jinsheng from the Institute of Psychology at the Chinese Academy of Sciences, based on his follow-up survey of 1,800 parents in Beijing in the past three years, pointed out that at present two-thirds of families have different degrees of misdiagnosis, Different ways of education, parents will be divided into four types: First, over-protection. Such parents often do things for their children, resulting in some children in high school will not cut apples, so children naturally difficult to normal, positive and healthy development of personality. The second is excessive interference type. Such parents always according to their own wishes, to the children’s words and deeds, set the tone, in this interference, the child is very difficult to divergent thinking, often cultivate habits of others. Third, severe punishment. Although the number of such parents is not a lot, but