女儿很任性,对她讲道理就如对牛弹琴。通常情况下我往往采取粗暴的呵斥和任其哭闹的方法制止她的不良行为和无理要求。时间一长,孩子与我有了隔膜,而且变得畏畏缩宿,即便是正常的要求也不敢开口了。有些事常要我问很多遍,甚至使出杀手锏,大声呵斥或扬言要扇嘴巴,才迫于无奈吐出字来。从一个极端走向另一个极端,这样的结果令我苦不堪言。 针对女儿的特点,我开始了让孩子在生活实践中明白道理的新尝 Daughter is self-willed, reasoning to her like a coward. Often, I often take a rude scold and let her cry out of ways to stop her bad behavior and unreasonable demands. A long time, the child has a diaphragm with me, and become dauntless, even if the normal requirements are not open. Something I often asked many times, even resorted to killer, loudly scold or threatened to fan, was forced to spit out words. From one extreme to another extreme, such results miserable to me. In view of the characteristics of her daughter, I started a new taste for children to understand the truth in their daily life