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我儿子今年四岁了,前一段时间这孩子脾气变得特别犟,非常任性,比如,去商店买玩具,买了小汽车,还要买大火车,无论怎么给他讲道理,都听不进去。甚至大喊大叫,在地上打滚。我和爱人有时气急之下,就用巴掌对付他。结果,要不就是我们妥协,要不就是儿子哭得声嘶力竭。后来我与爱人冷静分析了儿子任性的原因,可能是我们教养方式不当,不了解幼儿心理特点及儿子与同伴交往机会太少造成的。针对这些原因,我们对孩子的任性采取了相应的对策,结果也收到了明显的效果,儿子变成了一个懂事理、性格开朗的孩子。我们采取的教育方法主要有以下一些:
My son is now 4 years old. Some time ago her child became very temper. She was very self-willed, for example, going to the store to buy toys, buying a car, buying a big train and no matter how reasonable he was. Even shouting, rolling on the ground. Sometimes my spouse and my partner are in a hurry, we deal with him slapped. The result, or else we compromise, or else his son cried hoarseness. Later, my wife and I calmly analyzed the reasons for the son’s waywardness, which may be due to improper parenting, ignorance of the psychological characteristics of young children and the occasional lack of opportunities for son-to-peer interaction. For these reasons, we have taken appropriate measures for the children’s self-willed, the results also received significant results, the son has become a rational, cheerful children. The main methods of education we adopt are the following: