在幼儿园里,我们经常听到一些孩子说“俺妈妈让我这样做”“俺爸爸让我那样做”之类的话。这些孩子一遇到事情首先考虑的是他人的想法和做法,而不能主动提出自己的意见或建议。平时和小朋友在一起,他们从不带头做事,习惯追随在能力强的孩子后边,心甘情愿地听从他人的安排。他们 In kindergarten, we often hear words such as “my mom let me do this” and “my dad did me”. As soon as these children encounter something, they first consider the ideas and practices of others and can not take the initiative to make their own opinions or suggestions. Usually with children, they never take the lead, used to follow the ability of children behind, willing to listen to other people’s arrangements. they