我的岳母今年50来岁,是苏北农村那种典型的勤劳、朴实、善良的农家妇女。我和妻子结为秦晋之好10余载,说实话我从未认真且亲切地喊岳母一声“妈”。家乡有句民谣:“闺女婿是半个儿,走进老丈人家门,忙坏了老丈母娘,不是宰鸡就是宰羊。”按理说我和妻娘家是那种血浓于水的血亲关系,然而我对于妻的娘家人,总感觉在心灵上有一种深深的隔阂。虽然我和岳母家相隔很近, My mother-in-law, who is 50 years old this year, is a typical industrious, simple and kind farmer woman in rural North Jiangsu. My wife and I became Qin Jin good for more than 10 years, to be honest I never seriously and cordially shouting mother “mother.” There is a hometown folk ballads: “The daughter-in-law is half a child, into the husband’s home, busy wife and mother, not slaughtering chicken is slaughter sheep.” To be fair, I and my wife’s family is the kind of blood thicker than water, blood relations, however My wife and his family, I always feel a deep spiritual gap. Although I am close to my mother’s home,