人是社会的人,任何人都不可能脱离一定的社会群体而独立存在。正是从这个意义上,英国著名哲学家培根才说:“缺乏真正的朋友乃是最纯粹最可怜的孤独;没有友谊则斯世不过是一片荒野。”生活在现实社会中的领导干部同样也有着友谊和交往的需要,也总会有三朋四友。然而,领导干部交什么样的朋友。却是一个不能忽视、不能不慎的问题。孔子云:“与善人 People are social people. No one can exist independently from certain social groups. It is in this sense that the famous British philosopher Bacon said: “The lack of true friends is the purest and most pathetic loneliness. Without friendship, the world is nothing more than a wilderness.” Leading cadres living in the real world also have Friends and exchanges need, there will always be three friends and four friends. However, leading cadres to pay what kind of friends. But it is a problem that can not be ignored and can not be careless. Confucius said: "And good people