在“一年三百六十日,风刀霜剑严相逼”的贾府中,芸芸众生都在辛苦算计着。有的机关算尽,枉断了性命,有的却死里逃生。同样是贾府中人,为何有的能侥幸逃脱,有的却深陷其中?都只是因为他们是否坚信一切都会过去,保持乐观坦然。这看似容易,但心里的这道坎你能否跨过去呢?要说这道坎,贾府里唯有史湘云从容地跨了过去。“襁褓中,父母叹双亡,纵居那倚罗从,谁知娇养?”以此看来,湘云的身世其实比黛玉更为凄苦些。但她也并没有黛玉“尔今死去侬收葬,未卜侬身何日丧”的忧愁、感伤,取而代之的是发自内心的乐观、积极、豁达。一切都会过 In the “one year three hundred and sixty days, the wind knife frost Strict” “Jia government, all mortal beings are working hard with. Some organs count, in vain broken life, but some escape. The same is Jiazhongzhongren, why some can escape luckily, but others are in it? Just because they are convinced that everything will pass, remain optimistic. This may seem easy, but the heart of this threshold you can cross it? To say this hurdle, Jia only calmly across the past Shi Xiangyun. ”襁 褓, parents sigh death, permanent residence that rely on Luo from, who knows how to raise?“ In this view, the life experience of Xiangyun actually more miserable than Daiyu. However, she did not have the sadness and sentiment of Dai Yu ’s ”death now and then," and replaced it with optimism, positiveness and open-mindedness from the bottom of her heart. Everything will be over