目前家庭教育中,家长对子女往往关注学习成绩优劣的多,关心思想道德培育的少;物质刺激多,精神激励少;生活上娇生惯养多,严格要求少;教育方法简单粗暴批评指责多;说服、讲理、赏识鼓励少。家长应走出家教的误区,推进素质教育,才能把孩子培养好。实施素质教育,就是要全面贯彻党的教育方针,造就“有理想、有道德、有文化、有纪律”的德、智、体、美全面发展的社会主义新人。实施素质教育,学校应当起主导作用,但只靠学校教育是不够的,没有家庭教育、社会教育的配合,素质教育不可能真正落到实处。家庭实施素质教育有其独特的优势和有利条件,对提高素质教育成效至关重要。首先要教孩子学会做人。道德品质和文化知识水 At present, in family education, parents tend to pay more attention to the merits and demerits of their academic achievements, and care less about the cultivation of ideological and moral values. They have less physical stimulation and less spiritual stimulation. They have more pampered and less demanding lifestyles. Lectures, appreciation encourage less. Parents should go out of the errors of tutoring and promote quality education in order to train their children well. To implement quality education is to fully implement the party’s education policy and create a new socialist man of moral, intellectual, physical and aesthetic all-round development that is “ideologically, ethically, culturally and disciplinedly”. The implementation of quality education, the school should play a leading role, but school education alone is not enough, without family education, social education, quality education can not really be implemented. The implementation of quality education in families has its unique advantages and favorable conditions, which are crucial to improving the quality of education. First of all, to teach children to learn to be human. Moral quality and cultural knowledge water