一、大胆、虛心。我开始作輔导員工作时,看見学員对普通話都有基础,有些心虛。还未接触学員,思想上就产生了怕的情緒;我怕学員提出些自己不能解答的問題,又怕把問題解釋錯了,又怕自己想不出办法去进行輔导。同学員接触的时候,总是縮手縮足,說話都得慢慢兒,特別留心,总怕学員找出个什么岔兒来。由于这个原因,与学員在一塊兒的时候非常少。 First, bold, open-minded. When I started to work as a counselor, I saw that trainees had a foundation and some guilty conscience. Have not yet contacted the trainees, ideologically produced a fear of the emotions; I am afraid of students to put forward some of their own problems can not be answered, afraid to explain the problem wrong, afraid they can not think of ways to counseling. With the students contact, always shrinking, talking slowly, especially pay attention, always afraid of students to find out what happened. For this reason, very few students and when together.