在社会心理学家看来,比较在一个人的心理发展上具有两种重要功能,一是认识自己,人都是在与其他人的交往过程中认识自己的,所以,每个人都是以他人为“镜”的。二是确立目标,人都需要在与其他人的比较过程中,找到自己的人生目标和努力方向。不论在认识自己方面,还是在确立目标方 In the opinion of social psychologists, there are two important functions in the development of a person’s psychology: one is to know oneself and all know oneself in the process of interaction with others; therefore, everyone is based on others For “mirror”. The second is to establish goals, people need to compare with others in the process to find their own goals and direction of life. Whether you know yourself or you’re setting a goal