在风靡一时的热门主旋律电视剧《激情燃烧的岁月》中,有这样一个情节:石光荣和禇琴这对在艰难危险的战争时期都棒打不散的革命夫妻,在退休之后却因为情趣和志向相差太远而遭遇了前所未有的感情危机,他们每日争吵不断——禇琴喜欢唱歌跳舞,可石光荣认为那是“闲着没事瞎蹦达”;石光荣喜欢在自家院子里种一些新鲜小菜,可褚琴却忍受不了肥料的难闻气味,待在屋里也要戴口罩示威……两人因此陷入持续的冷战。其实生活中像他们这样的夫妻并不少见,解决之道说起来也很简单,那就是凡事不要强求一致,对于老年夫妻来说,给老伴一点空间,相互之间保持一些适当的距离,也是一种爱。 Among the rage popular hit TV series “The Passionate Burning Years,” there is such a plot: Shi Guangrong and violins, revolutionary couples who are both fiercely battling during difficult and dangerous wars, after retiring because of their taste and ambition The difference is too far and suffered an unprecedented crisis of emotions, their constant quarrel every day - violin like singing and dancing, but Shi Guangrong think it is “idle nothing blind jumped up”; Shi Guangrong like to plant some in their own yard Fresh side dishes, but Chu piano can not stand the bad smell of fertilizer, staying in the house have to wear mask protest ... ... So they fell into a continuing Cold War. In fact, couples like them are not uncommon in life, the solution is simple speaking, that is, everything should not be unanimous, for older couples, to his wife a little space, each other to maintain some appropriate distance, but also a Kind of love