家庭教育应根据儿童的心理特点来进行,所以教育孩子首先须了解孩子的心理特点。儿童的心理特点有很多,已故著名教育家陈鹤琴先生将之归纳为“四心”,并提出了相应教育方法。一是好动心。儿童生来好动,他时而跑,时而跳,没有一刻的工夫能象成人那样静坐默思。儿童为什么好动呢?因为他的自制力很差,他的行动完全为冲动与感觉所支配。所以他一想到饥饿,就会到处去找食物吃;他一感到疼痛,就会放声大 Family education should be based on the psychological characteristics of children to carry out, so education of children must first understand the psychological characteristics of children. There are many psychological characteristics of children, the late famous educator Mr. Chen Heqin will be summarized as “four hearts” and put forward the corresponding method of education. First, be tempted. Child born active, he sometimes run, sometimes jump, no moment of work can be as meditation as adults. Why is childrens motivated? Because of his poor self-control, his actions are completely dominated by impulses and feelings. So when he thought of hunger, he would eat food everywhere; when he felt pain, he would loudly