现代心理学研究表明:与同伴的交往是儿童身心发展和社会化赖以实现的基本要素。因此,在儿童的身心发展过程中,人际交往是促进其社会化进程的重要条件之一,因为这一时期身心发展快,可塑性很大,接受能力强,是孩子成长的关键时期。而人际交往能否成功,往往会对人的个性及其认识能力的发展产生重要影响。众所周知,人际交往在孩子们的成长中占据着重要的位置,尤其是小学一二年级的“关键期”——亲子关系、师生关系、同学关系的紧张与疏离,都会直接影响到孩子性格的发展和品质 Modern psychology research shows that: interaction with peers is the basic element of children’s physical and mental development and socialization. Therefore, during the physical and mental development of children, interpersonal communication is one of the important conditions to promote their socialization process. Because of the rapid physical and psychological development, great plasticity and strong acceptability during this period, it is a crucial period for children’s growth. The success of interpersonal communication often has an important impact on the development of human personality and cognitive skills. As we all know, interpersonal communication occupies an important position in the growth of children, especially the first and second grade primary school "parent-child relationship, teacher-student relationship, student relationship tension and alienation, will have a direct impact on children Character development and quality