孩子的出生会使一个家庭的重心发生转变,从父母的二人世界开始向孩子倾斜。在孩子未长大前的很长一段时间里,这个家庭生活的很多方面都会围绕着孩子来展开。在父母眼里,孩子是他们生命的延续,他们理所当然地想让孩子避免自己曾经的遗憾,想要孩子能够成长为自己想象中的那样。而对孩子的教育方法或是和孩子的相处之道,更应该是家长需要好好思考并研究一番的事。孩子在青春期到来后,由于独立意识和自我意识日益增强,会与父母的教 The birth of a child changes the center of gravity of a family from the parents’ twin world to their children. For a long time before children grow up, many aspects of this family life revolve around their children. In the eyes of their parents, children are a continuation of their lives, and they naturally want their children to avoid the regret they used to want their children to grow as they imagine. And the way to educate children or get along with children should be something that parents need to think and study. After the arrival of adolescence, the children will teach with their parents due to the growing awareness of independence and self-awareness