现实中,我们经常听到一些教师在埋怨:现在的学生越来越不听话,学习不努力,不理解老师,好心没好报……扪心自问:在“教育就是服务”的呼声日益升高的今天,我们站在学生的立场了吗?我们在乎学生的“在乎”了吗?在学生们童年最渴望得到快乐的时候,我们却告诫他们:“吃得苦中苦,方 In reality, we often hear that some teachers are complaining: Nowadays, students are becoming more and more disobedient, students are not working hard, they do not understand teachers, and they don’t want to report well... They ask themselves: “The demand for education is service” is increasing. Did we stand in the student’s position? Do we care about the student’s “care”? When the students were most eager to be happy, we told them: “Eating in pain is a bitter experience.