青海省的夏斐被妈妈打死,妈妈从此疯了。这场恶梦似的悲剧,曾经震动了全国,使千千万万的父母和老师们深感痛惜。曾几何时,这种可怕的悲剧,却又在武汉重演了。夏辉是一个年仅11岁的小学生,因为逃学,被疼爱他的爸爸活活地吊死。两个星期之后,沈阳市又发生8岁的王小川被爸爸踢死的悲剧。这三个孩子都是被亲生的父母“教育”而死。接连发生的家庭悲剧,为家庭教育提出了一个极为紧迫的问题:提高家长素质,转变家长教育观念,刻不容缓! 家长固然必须具备一个国家公民所应有的素质,如具有一定文化水平,一定的道德修养,一个健康的体魄等等。但这些只是一般素质,还远远不够。因为,家长是孩子天然的第一任老师,而且是长期的、常任的、全方位的老师。这就要求家长还应该具备对子女进行教育的特殊素质。比如,了解儿童生长发育的规 Summer Fei Fei in Qinghai Province was killed by her mother, her mother since then crazy. This nightmare-like tragedy has once shaken the entire country, deploring tens of thousands of parents and teachers deeply. Once upon a time, this terrible tragedy, but again in Wuhan. Xia Hui is an 11-year-old primary school student, because of truancy, was hanged by his father who loves his life. Two weeks later, Wang Xiaochuan, an 8-year-old man, was kicked dead by his father in Shenyang City. All three are dying of their biological parents “education”. A series of family tragedies have posed an extremely urgent problem for family education: raising the quality of parents and changing the concept of parent education urgently requires parents to possess the qualities that a country citizen should have, such as having a certain standard of culture and a certain degree of morality Self-cultivation, a healthy body and so on. However, these are only general qualities and are not enough. Because parents are children’s natural first teachers, but also long-term, permanent, all-round teacher. This requires that parents should also have the special qualities of education of their children. For example, to understand the rules of children’s growth and development