每所学校、每个班级中都会有遭遇家庭变故的学生,他们有些是父母离异,有些是亲人去世,还有些是家庭遭遇了其他打击。这些学生中,有不少人因为家庭特殊而感到自卑、困惑和迷茫。他们的心理更加脆弱,既羡慕其他同学的幸福生活,又容易自我封闭,不愿和同学、老师主动谈及自己的家庭、父母;不愿让老师、同学知道自己的创伤和遭遇,担心别人看不起自己;更不情愿在大庭广众之下接受他人的同情和帮助,他们觉得这样会伤害自 Each school and each class will have students who have experienced family misfortunes. Some of them are divorced from their parents, some are relatives who have died, and some families have suffered other attacks. Many of these students feel low self-esteem, confusion and confusion because of their special family. Their mentality is more fragile. They envy the happiness of other students and they are self-closed. They are reluctant to talk with their classmates and teachers about their families and parents; they do not want teachers and classmates to know their own traumas and encounters, and they fear that others will look down on them. They are more reluctant to accept other people’s sympathy and help under the broad public, and they feel that this will hurt themselves.