妈妈来信:我的孩子已经上幼儿园了。上个星期二去接孩子的时候,老师叫住我,说今天批评他了,因为他吃饭时脸朝后,老师就说了一句“别把脸朝后,好好吃饭！”孩子眼圈马上就红了,委屈地哭了。上周五开家长会的时候,我又跟老师提了这件事,主要的意思是:1.该批评还得批评,不能让他没有一点承受力;2.注意语气,尽量不要伤了他的自尊心;3.告诉他老师是爱他的。 我的孩子的确内向、每感、自尊心强,平时拿老师的话当圣旨,决不调皮捣蛋,不属于老师关注的一类,那天可能是老 Letter from my mother: My child is in kindergarten. Last Tuesday to pick up the child, the teacher stopped me and said he criticized him today, because he was eating face back, the teacher said “Do not face back, eat well!” Red, grieved to cry. When I opened the parent meeting last Friday, I told the teacher about it again. The main points are: 1. The criticism has to be criticized so that he can not afford to bear it. 2. Pay attention to the tone and try not to hurt him Self-esteem; 3. Tell him the teacher loves him. My children are introverted, each feeling, self-esteem, usually take the teacher’s words as the imperial edict, not naughty, not a teacher concerned about the class that day may be old